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Godsends or Grandzillas?

GRANDPARENTS can be a godsend for first-time parents – but they can be a cause of stress too, writes Jess Ratty. How do you deal with unwanted parenting advice?

The cot has been put together, the nursery has been painted and the baby clothes are neatly folded. You are about to give birth and everything is ready - or is it? Have you thought about how you will handle the "grandzillas" when your new baby arrives?

Will your parents and your in-laws be fighting through the doors of the hospital wing? Competing as to who will buy the most baby kit? Giving unwanted opinions on the name you have chosen for your child? This sort of behaviour can ruin what should be a special time in your relationship. Some new grandparents even go so far as to act as if the baby is their child, reborn 30 years later.

Having a baby can be hard enough without dealing with over-zealous grandparents, and being tactful with an ocean full of hormones coursing through your exhausted body can be incredibly difficult. The number of times I have bitten my tongue in the last few months in my position of first-time mum has been too many to count. Often words didn't even thicken the air before tensions were raised and my belief in myself as a mother was thrown into doubt. Should I chance placing my baby on his stomach to sleep for an hour? No! Bad mother! What about the odd bottle of formula? No! Bad mother!

One young mother I know continued breastfeeding just so her mother-in-law, who had strong opinions and vocal objections to how the child was being raised, would not be able to feed the baby with a bottle. She felt threatened by her intimidating manner and became increasingly possessive of her baby.

Another mum had a different kind of problem: she doubted the cleanliness of her in-laws' house. She was scared to place the baby on the carpet after wondering when it was last vacuumed. Just how do you tell a grandmother not to place your freshly bathed child on a dust- and grit-littered floor without causing offence that could last a lifetime?
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Grandparents play a vital role in the family.

"It is the grandparents I turn to for advice when my baby won't stop crying ... they are valuable and wonderful"

On the other hand, it is the grandparents I turn to for advice when my baby won't stop crying or I'm looking for a much-needed break. They are valuable and wonderful. And, of course, many grandparents are kind and dedicated full-time carers for their grandchildren.
But it is the unwanted advice and pressure over how to "be a parent" that is tricky to navigate. It is an issue that many parents-to-be don't even think about in the months leading up to the birth, and one that can cause a lot of aggravation afterwards.
Valuable advice given to me beforehand was to be brutally honest from the start - that way there are no surprises after. It didn't solve the problem of which granny got to hold the baby first, though! I also found that a bunch of flowers goes a long way after an argument and a frosty Sunday lunch over the wails of a newborn baby.
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Grandparents can be a godsend for first-time parents – but they can be a cause of stress too.
But the best lesson I have learned is to nod and smile - and then do it your own way. Mum knows best, after all.

Give yourself and Nanna a break, call in a first class babysitter, telephone the Angels on (07) 3878 1077.

Home is Where the Angels Are!

MOST people recognise DIAL-AN-ANGEL® as the leader in the provision of babysitters, nannies and housekeepers, but did you know that it also provides nursing and aged care services?

"Individuals who want care without compromise, continuity of care, the option to deal with just one agency and private care in their homes can choose to use us."

As DIAL-AN-ANGEL® is not government funded, it will not be getting direct access to the Commonwealth government's $3.7 billion package of reforms which are intended to give older Australians “more choice, easier access and better care” in their later years.

"We will, however, be brokered to by government funded agencies unable to cope with the demand," said DIAL-AN-ANGEL®'s CEO, Danielle Robertson. "Individuals who want care without compromise, continuity of care, the option to deal with just one agency and private care in their homes can choose to use us."
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DIAL-AN-ANGEL'S main aim is to keep people in their own homes for as long as possible.
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"Our main aim is to keep people in their own homes for as long as possible and with consumer directed funding, clients will have choice of the providers to use and top up the funding if the service provider charges more than their voucher".
"We encourage our clients to use our services not just for companion care, personal care or palliative care, but also for domestic cleaning, meal preparation, gardening and full domestic support with total flexibility," Danielle added. "We tailor the care to suit the client’s needs and not the other way round."

Community care generally advises the client time and day they will be there even if it’s not convenient to the client.

DIAL-AN-ANGEL® offers flexible care arrangements from three hours to 24/7 care, weekends and public holidays.

DIAL-AN-ANGEL® provides:
  • Companion Care
  • Convalescent and respite care
  • Qualified nurses and personal care attendants
  • Palliative care
  • Driving and chauffeuring to appointments
  • Specialising – private one-on-one care in hospitals, hostels and nursing homes

"Overall, these age care reforms will enable older Australians to get the help they both need and deserve so they can remain living in their own homes for as long as possible," Danielle said.

"It replaces an aged care system designed a quarter of a century ago and which is now ill-equipped to meet the needs of retiring baby boomers and their parents who are living longer and healthier lives."

For more information on nursing or aged care services, visit DIAL-AN-ANGEL®'s website or call 1300 721 111.


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